Stephen — I understand why you stayed. It makes sense. People can second guess all they want, but unless they are living your life with your realities, they can never truly understand the reason for the choices we make. I am sorry to hear that you too suffered from an abusive boss. It sounds like you took the brunt of the abuse to protect others, and that is a courageous move on your part. Thank you for sharing your story, and i hope you are in a situation now that is healthy where your work is appreciated. Be well.